Dating for Grown Ups

mozartnmontblanc

Director and Psychotherapist

I'm 51 and from 'North London' - , London, London (Greater) (UK)

I'm looking for a man

I'm interested in: Friends, Social Networking, Romance or Long Term Relationship

[Last logged on : A long time ago]

Not looking for Superman

I love water sports and can't live far from a decent pool. I train several times a week at a London Masters swimming club and would happily swim, snorkel, dive, para-sail, jet ski or kayak with you.

I enjoy classical music concerts, theatre, reading and films as much as workshops and seminars - investment, property, psychology and psychotherapy. I invest a lot of time in my personal development and growth and enjoy having space and time to myself - to potter about at home, cooking, enjoying films and dramas, spending time with good friends. I love making a difference through what I do. Family, friends and self-care are really important to me.

As to what I'm looking for... Not Superman, Not Mr Perfect. Just a loving man who's comfortable in his own skin.

You... are probably self-aware and values-driven. Grounded, genuine, glass half-full and ok with (enjoy?!) talking about 'deep stuff'. You'll know what you want from life and what you stand for. You are affectionate, tactile and happy to share hugs, cuddles and kisses with the hopeless romantic that I am.

If you fancy me and all of the above in an equal, committed and monogamous relationship, Destiny might well have brought us together on this website.. Let's find out!

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Basic Info

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Marital Status	Single
Has Children	No
Would like children?	Not sure
Hair Color	None Selected
Height	5' 3'' (1.6m)
Religion	Spiritual
Smokes	No
Dietary Preferences	No Restrictions
Star Sign	Libra

Orientation	Straight
Heritage	None Selected
Education	Undergraduate Degree
Eye Colour	None Selected
Body Type	Athletic
Politics	Centre-Right
Drinks	Social drinker
Like Animals	Yes

Occupation:

I run my own business as a change consultant... among other things. In my free time, I volunteer as a therapist in some specialist areas. I have no interest in fixing the people in my life; I just refer them on!

Education:

First degree followed by professional qualifications.

Heritage:

Chinese with a bit Thai ancestry. Hm something like 12.679 Thai%?

Religion:

Spiritual. My family was Buddhist but I went to a Catholic school. Most of my beliefs are fairly conservative as most Orientals of my generation are. :-)

Politics:

Centre Right.

Appearance:

I'm very athletic and well toned, thanks to swimming.

Languages Spoken:

Cantonese, , English, Japanese, Mandarin, Spanish, French, German

Musical Instruments played:

Drums, Piano... though not well enough to tinker on the piano at St Pancras. I can drum a bit...only a bit.

Music Enjoyed:

80s for dancing, classical anytime, jazz, opera with the right company and chinese soft rock/jazz/rap on my own.

Sports and exercise:

Swimming. And other water sports when I'm in warm countries. I don't particularly like watching sports on TV but I am partial to Six Nations and Rugby World Cup.

Interests and activities:

Concerts, Countryside, Ceroc, Shopping, TV, Voluntary Work, Yoga, Alternative Medicine, Dancing (ballroom), ...ceroc, Cooking, Eating out, Friends, Feng Shui, Health and Fitness, Internet, Mountains, New Age, Reading, Camping, Theatre, Travel, Numerology.

Animals and Pets:

I don't mind pets. Because of my lifestyle, I've taken to keeping orchids instead though sadly, they don't talk or love you back like cats and dogs do...

Newspapers and magazines:

Evening Standard, Financial Times, National Geographic

Books:

Agatha Christie, Bill Bryson, J. R. R. Tolkien, John Grisham, Roald Dahl, Non fiction - business, leadership, psychology. And generally books that still smell of paper.

Favourite Films:

Breakfast at Tiffany's, Casablanca, Forrest Gump, , An Affair to remember,Some Like It Hot, Star Wars, Lord of the Rings (this isn't really a classic yet but it should be in 10 years' time?), Das Leben des Anderen.

Enjoyable evening out:

Art Gallery, Cinema, Live Music, Musical, Pub, Restaurant, Theatre, Wine bar, Theatre. Fancy restaurant with Toptable deal. Jazz club. Because art galleries and museums don't tend to be open at night unless there's some special exhibition or event on till late. Céilí or Ceroc dance event.

Favourite Dishes:

A Chinese banquet, Lobster Thermidor, Thai Green Curry, Oriental and Japanese any day, European (except Italian) any other day.

Ideal Holiday:

Driving across the US, Driving slowly around Ireland, Learning to paint in Provence, Lying on a beach in the Caribbean, Scuba diving in Thailand, Whitewater rafting in the Rockies, A trip on the Rocky Mountaineer, A lazy week in the Four Seasons - Maldives or a Carribean beach that's not thronged with Brits, Golf in Scotland if it's at the Gleneagles.

In another life:

a doctor, a film director, a musician, Audrey Hepburn, Richard Branson or someone who owns their private island somewhere warm and sunny.

Personality:

Affectionate, Ambitious, Aware, Caring, Cheerful, Confident, Courageous, Humorous, Independent, Intellectual, Loving, Positive, Reliable, Romantic, Sentimental, Serious, Sociable, Strong, Strong willed, Thoughtful, Tolerant, A number of these would apply, but at my core, I am.. Cheerful and Affectionate, Mischievous but Responsible, Cautious and Courageous, Pragmatic and Imaginative, Planful yet

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