| We'll tell you how to contact us at the 
		bottom of this page - but first please 
		read the following...
 If you're a full member we're happy 
            to hear from you ...please use the special priority support email 
            address we informed you of when you upgraded. If you email that 
            address then it gets flagged and diverted to a separate queue 
            where hopefully we can help you much more promptly. We can't give 
            this address out here as it will get inundated with 
            spam! 
 General Help/FAQs  is where we answer 
            Frequently Asked Questions about our system e.g. 
            'Help! I can't log on...', 'How do I 
      send emails?' 'What's a favourite member', etc, etc. We also answer the 
      question "How do I get started navigating around the site".
		>>> Please read these first <<<
 Before you Contact 
      us (for help/support): 
        We'd really appreciate if you read          
		         
		FAQs first.     It is 
              good 'Netiquette' (Internet Etiquette) to always check the site 
                  
		         
		  FAQs before emailing in (this applies to 
		any internet site). Most people's questions/problems are answered here. 
		
Checkout the '  Options' page - we've made the site 
        so that you can administer most aspects of your account yourself. 
        Members can suspend/reactivate/terminate your membership, opt out of 
        emails, change your email address and password, etc., etc.
Checkout our  
		Support 'Forum' 
		. Here members help 
              each other use the site. Perhaps someone else has already written 
              in wanting to do what you're wanting - and another member has 
              answered them.              
		             
		      
         When you do Contact us 
		(for help/support): 
        Make sure you quote your username on emails. 
        describe explicitly  in detail on your email what happens and what 
              the error message says. If possible send us a screenshot of the 
              error      
              
                    
                   
         Good: "When I went to the 'Send a 
      Message' page last night I tried to send messages to 'pinotnoir' and 
      'zinfandel'. On both occasions after pressing the send button I got 
      an error message which said 'Timeout connecting to destination 
      mailserver'. My username is 'Chardonnay' - I'm using Internet 
      Explorer 6.0 on a PC from home. Bad: "Can't log in - please help!", 
      "Site doesn't work - what's up???!!", "Profile doesn't save", "Messages 
      don't send" "Can't see my messages", etc.   Ambiguous 
      reports of problems are frustrating for both you and us - we simply can't 
      help you if we don't have the details. Result =        
              delay in getting you sorted.           
                 
      We do our best to help all members but if you're 
      a free member please 
      note: 
              The site is a self service system 
              whereby you should be able to do everything for yourself 
              Due to the large volume of email we 
              receive we often cannot reply to you as promptly as we would 
              like   Over 90% of emails reporting 'problems' with our site turn out to be due to problems 
      at the member's end  - e.g. something to do with your browser/computer/internet connection. We do our 
      best to help but simply haven't the resources to 
      offer tech support/handholding if you've a general computer problem 
      (e.g. privacy software/virus checker/firewall)  We expect you to have a working browser 
      (Explorer 5 or higher, Firefox 2 or higher) + 
      reliable Internet connection to use our site.  At last  - our 
		contact details 
		...you have read our FAQs, haven't you?  Full members please ignore the below and 
            use your secret priority address for all urgent/important 
            matters |